wassup wif this world?!!

juz witnessed a "quarrel" (by emo's standards) this evening over a stupid assignment by 2 ppl who cares too much zzz... i realised that it's always difficult to assuage the situation when one of the party cant express fast and clear enough... tip of the day: practise to speak wat truly comes to ur mind, and stop the quarrel. lol

it was quite irritating to watch but it gets really absurd on retrospect, and u'll start to laugh. someone calls it 逞强, which i totally agree... sometimes some things are best left to be done by one person... reminds me of the "roadblock" in "the amazing race" lol. there's no way a team can proceed until 1 person steps up to the challenge and completes it. seems like this scenario happens a lot in all kinds of drama serials, movies, and anime... some times it's juz best to let go...

on to another matter which disturbs me since a long time ago. i've realised there are quite a number of people around me who seem to be replicas of characters in cheesy drama serials... now i wonder if it's the scriptwriters who were able to capture the essence of such ppl into the characters of their stories, or it is the other way round - common people identifying with characters they see in the media who are similar to them in terms of environment, difficulties they face, etc., and re-enacting what they see on screen in their everyday life. i want to believe that it's the latter as it's known that the depressing personas u see are not their true character. and there is hope that the true character is much more optimistic and liberated. but it seems that the former holds more truth... which is rather saddening.

hopefully everybody can find their own little piece of heaven on earth someday...